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When things dont go your way...

When things dont go your way or When life fails you...see life differently...try doing things differently...this is one philosophy I sincerely believe in and I would like to share my experience in this regard.

Life was miserable when i was continuously flunking in my CA final examination, i knew there was something missing in the way I approach my exams or answer my questions else there was no reason why this should happen to a person?

There were a stretch of events which definitely did not go my way...and that added to the turbulance and my confidence was gone...

Looking back at what really mattered and what really brought me out of that vicious cycle...it was just a few traits which i did not have in the previous phase of life and that did make a lot of difference. These are what I personally feel but may be my friends who had been with me then may differ or agree...

The first one I would say is Focus...and to wat gave this focus...its just loneliness that gave me the focus...the fact is that I did not have any distractions to cause distortion in my focus. With most of the friends moving away to different places and then with no TV at house...there is very less to distract you.

 

But then i had one other big interest which definitely kept me away from Boredom...was MARKETS...and it was then i started to understand the language of share markets...let me not deliberate too much on this...

The next thing being the paradigm shift to positive attitude..from a very very very negative thinking person...here a special thanks to Nikita...really who really really identified this problem which i had...and her help in this regard is jus one that I surely cant forget. Still even today when there is something negative that i envisage of, its she who comes right before me and says....come on anantha be positive and hope for the best

Surely one other thing which made the difference was the material which i used...and hear the special thanks goes to Deepa..had it not been for her material...surely i wouldnt have cleared my examination...for sure

 

and I even made changes to the people who like regularly around me...so that they dont talk of my failures...or current position...(Thanks to saranyah) for jus keeping me going with her regular MESSAGES over phone and regular chats...she was one person who like kept me awake and going most of the time...

 

Last but not least here in this post, I have taken the liberty not to mention the name of a FEW really really important people...whom I sincerely thank from heart for having been with me and helped me out of the mess which  I was INTO...and who gave me the confidence and emotional strength and support to just keep on trying for Chartered accountancy. I would also to thank Priya...not only for having introduced me to this course but also to many other things...which surely cannot be ennumbered.

Today if am a Chartered Accountant...i would dedicate that to the independence and support which my parents had given me when I was in trouble flunking exam after exam...thats one thing which I would like to mention over here

 

So, definitely things would turn if you try to look back and see the mistakes that you�re doing which is causing the failures and then if you start doing them differently...this would also prevent monotony

 

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Chennai visit....

This times chennai visit has been enjoyable and satisfying in its own way. My bet to go to chennai only on longer week ends rather than on regular week ends had paid off. However did not get to meet all of friends in chennai but did atleast speak to each and every one over phone... it was a nice enjoyable outings with some of my good friends. A enjoyable ride to the Marina...and then mid night chat there. Did get to meet a few ppl for the first time outside the regular places..which was also fun in its own way. The highlight was however that am all set to be the owner of a piece of land in chennai...which was long drawn dream for me. So one of the childhood dreams comes true. It was a moment of ecstacy to stand there and realise that I have got the place. And for once spent some time with the family also...which was so different from the usual routine normal anantha...

So all in all...a good trip...but like all good things come to an end...even the trip ended...

A tribute to all Mothers...Wishing them on 08/05/05

I wanted to post something for "Mother's Day". I neither have the time nor the capacity to write on my own..so wat next... I decided to steal from a site...Here is the extract for you...

 

 

There is no love, like a mother's love,
no stronger bond on earth...
like the precious bond that comes from God,
to a mother, when she gives birth.

A mother's love is forever strong,
never changing for all time...
and when her children need her most,
a mother's love will shine.

God bless these special mothers,
God bless them every one...
for all the tears and heartache,
and for the special work they've done.

When her days on earth are over,
a mother's love lives on...
through many generations,
with God's blessings on each one.

Be thankful for our mothers,
for they love with a higher love...
from the power God has given,
and the strength from up above.

by Jill Lemming**

Note: A special thanks to Mr.Jill Lemming...

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Moods of Woman

An angel of truth and a dream of fiction,
a woman is a bundle of contradiction,
she's afraid of a wasp, will scream at a mouse,
but will tackle her boyfriend alone in the house.

She'll take him for better, she'll take him for worse
she'll break open his head and then be his nurse
but when he's well and can get out of bed
she'll pick up the teapot and aim for his head

Beautiful and keenly sighted, yet blind,
crafty and cruel, yet simple and kind
she'll call him a king, then make him a clown,
raise him on a pedestal, then knock him flat down.


She'll inspire him to deeds that ennoble man,
or make him her lackey to carry her fan.
She'll run away from him and never come back
but if he runs away, then she'll be on his tracks,

sour as vinegar, sweet as a rose,
she'll kiss you one minute, then turn up her nose,
she'll win you in range, enchant you in silk,
she'll be stronger than brandy, milder than milk

at times she'll be vengeful, merry and sad,
she'll hate you like poison, and love you like mad.

Note: I did not write this neither...jus an appealing one which i thought wud share with every one

Be expressive...or it wud be too late

10th Grade:-
As I sat there in English class,
I stared at the girl next to me.
She was my so called 'best friend'.
I stared at her long, silky hair,
and wished she was mine.
But she didn't notice me like that,
and I knew it.
After class,
she walked up to me and asked me for
the notes she had missed the day before.
I handed them to her.She said 'thanks'
and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her, I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.


11th grade:-
The phone rang. On the other end,
it was her. She was in tears,
mumbling on and on about how
her love had broke her heart.
She asked me to come over
because she didn't want to be alone, So I did.
As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her
soft eyes, wishing she was mine.

After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie,
and three bags of chips,
she decided to go home.
She looked at me, said 'thanks'
and gave me a kiss
on the cheek..I want to tell her,
I want her to know that
I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.

Senior year:-
One fine day she walked to my locker.
"My date is sick" she said,
"hes not gonna go" well,
I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade,
we made a promise that
if neither of us had dates,
we would go together just as 'best friends'.
So we did.
That night, after everything was over,
I was standing at her front door step.
I stared at her as She smiled at me
and stared at me with her crystal eyes.
Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!"
and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.
Graduation:-
A day passed, then a week, then a month.
Before I could blink, it was graduation day.
I watched as her perfect body
floated like an angel
up on stage to get her diploma.
I wanted her to be mine-but
she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it.
Before everyone went home,
she came to me in her smock and hat,
and cried as I hugged her.
Then she lifted her head from my shoulder
and said- 'you're my best friend,
thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.
Marriage:-
Now I sit in the pews of the church.
That girl is getting married now.
and drive off to her new life,
married to another man.
I wanted her to be mine,
but she didn't see me like that,
and I knew it.
But before she drove away,
she came to me and said 'you came !'.
She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.
Death:-
Years passed, I looked down at the coffin
of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.
At the service, they read a diary entry
she had wrote in her high school years.
This is what it read:
'I stare at him wishing he was mine,
but he doesn't notice me like that,
and I know it.
I want to tell him,
I want him to know that
I don't want to be just friends,
I love him but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.
I wish he would tell me he loved me !
.........'I wish I did too...'