When things dont go your way...

When things dont go your way or When life fails you...see life differently...try doing things differently...this is one philosophy I sincerely believe in and I would like to share my experience in this regard.

Life was miserable when i was continuously flunking in my CA final examination, i knew there was something missing in the way I approach my exams or answer my questions else there was no reason why this should happen to a person?

There were a stretch of events which definitely did not go my way...and that added to the turbulance and my confidence was gone...

Looking back at what really mattered and what really brought me out of that vicious cycle...it was just a few traits which i did not have in the previous phase of life and that did make a lot of difference. These are what I personally feel but may be my friends who had been with me then may differ or agree...

The first one I would say is Focus...and to wat gave this focus...its just loneliness that gave me the focus...the fact is that I did not have any distractions to cause distortion in my focus. With most of the friends moving away to different places and then with no TV at house...there is very less to distract you.

 

But then i had one other big interest which definitely kept me away from Boredom...was MARKETS...and it was then i started to understand the language of share markets...let me not deliberate too much on this...

The next thing being the paradigm shift to positive attitude..from a very very very negative thinking person...here a special thanks to Nikita...really who really really identified this problem which i had...and her help in this regard is jus one that I surely cant forget. Still even today when there is something negative that i envisage of, its she who comes right before me and says....come on anantha be positive and hope for the best

Surely one other thing which made the difference was the material which i used...and hear the special thanks goes to Deepa..had it not been for her material...surely i wouldnt have cleared my examination...for sure

 

and I even made changes to the people who like regularly around me...so that they dont talk of my failures...or current position...(Thanks to saranyah) for jus keeping me going with her regular MESSAGES over phone and regular chats...she was one person who like kept me awake and going most of the time...

 

Last but not least here in this post, I have taken the liberty not to mention the name of a FEW really really important people...whom I sincerely thank from heart for having been with me and helped me out of the mess which  I was INTO...and who gave me the confidence and emotional strength and support to just keep on trying for Chartered accountancy. I would also to thank Priya...not only for having introduced me to this course but also to many other things...which surely cannot be ennumbered.

Today if am a Chartered Accountant...i would dedicate that to the independence and support which my parents had given me when I was in trouble flunking exam after exam...thats one thing which I would like to mention over here

 

So, definitely things would turn if you try to look back and see the mistakes that you�re doing which is causing the failures and then if you start doing them differently...this would also prevent monotony

 

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